Kat Von D & Jesse James close together: Kat Von D and Jesse James are engaged and happy as can be! They can't wait to get married and are spending as much time together as possible while living apart. Today they're celebrating Valentine's Day, and it sounds like Kat went all out for her man. "My Sweetheart TheKatVonD made me the most Beautiful V-Day Gift(s) She is such an Incredible Artist!" Jesse tweeted.